The Victor you are.

 I'll hold your hand to say this.

"YOUR TRAUMA IS NOT YOUR IDENTITY".

It is so easy to cling to the past that hurt you and wear your scars like a badge of honor.

It is a badge of survival.

It is even easier because several decisions that you make in your present life are directly or indirectly influenced by whatever your past was made of.

But don't get lost in it. Amidst all these, speaking from experience, especially as someone who is renewing her identity in Christ, You need to build your identity as a victor and not a victim anymore. 

As a survivor.

Many may not have been able to bear what you bore. But you came out victorious because you are meant for a bigger purpose. 

It was meant to shape you. 

Now the hurt or the trauma should not be the focus of your life, identity and even your brand. 

👉🏾What do you make out of it? 

👉🏾What did you learn from it? 

👉🏾How did it change you or help you identify your purpose? 

👉🏾How is it bringing you closer to God? 

👉🏾How can you help others? 

Remember that you are who you are now not just because of the trauma, but IN SPITE of it.

So remember it. But don't glorify it. 

Until our Lord and Savior arrives, may our light continue to shine, brighter and brighter, unto the perfect day. 🫶✨

✍️Dear Itohan 💞

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